In this episode of Mental Makeover Radio, let’s delve into the intricate world of routines. As the fall season prompts many of us to reassess our daily habits, I explore the dual nature of routines—how they can both support and limit our lives. We need routines in our lives from a young age and yet, as adults, those same routines can start to shrink our lives. 

Routines can help us preserve mental energy by automating repetitive tasks, reducing decision fatigue, and providing a sense of control.

Healthy vs. Unhealthy Routines:

While routines can promote mental health and wellness, they can also reinforce negative habits and mindsets. In therapy, we often work on creating routines that support positive mental health and dismantling those that contribute to anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem.

The Downside of Rigid Routines:

Routines can become too rigid, limiting our ability to see new opportunities and experience new things. They can be rooted in outdated mindsets, especially if they were formed during challenging times in our lives.

We need to focus on the flexibility of our routines, how we can expand our comfort zones, audit our need for control (even though control is an illusion we hold on to), and be open to adapting to new routines that fit our current life and goals. 

Time Stamps

00:00:01 - Introduction to Routines

00:00:33 - The Balance of Routines

00:01:06 - The Ubiquity of Routines

00:02:32 - Healthy vs. Unhealthy Routines

00:02:54 - The Brain and Routine Automation

00:03:58 - Decision Fatigue and Energy Preservation

00:05:02 - Creating Healthy Habits

00:05:55 - Integrating Positive Routines

00:06:18 - When Routines Work Against You

00:06:39 - The Problem with Rigidity

00:08:04 - Flexibility in Routines

00:08:28 - Outdated Mindsets and Routines

00:09:41 - Routines from Difficult Times

00:10:14 - The Impact of Rigid Routines

00:11:06 - Allowing Space for New Experiences

00:12:10 - Creativity and Spontaneity

00:13:04 - Control and Routine

00:14:27 - The Illusion of Control

00:15:08 - The Importance of Free Time

00:16:01 - The Consequences of a Small Comfort Zone

00:17:06 - Signs of Unwellness

00:18:08 - Expanding Your Comfort Zone

00:19:00 - Embracing Discomfort

00:19:44 - Rediscovering Wonderment

00:20:09 - Auditing Your Routines

00:21:01 - The Road to Happiness

00:21:34 - Embracing a Bigger Life

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